Horav Chaim Soloveitchik,zl, once said, “It is conceivable that specifically because an individual’s father would “run” to perform mitzvos, the son would break down doors in order to steal merchandise from which he could profit. While this statement seems incredible at first, Rav Chaim substantiates it with the following explanation: A child inherits the nature and personality of his parent, concerning innate traits. Behavior and mannerisms will not necessarily transfer to the offspring. When one pursues mitzvos as a result of an innate love for the Almighty and His mitzvos, purely for the sake of Heaven, this activity integrates into …
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The mitzvah of tochachah, administering rebuke to a fellow Jew who is erring, has two criteria that should be met. Indeed, if these two conditions are not met, it is better that one does not rebuke. First and foremost is l’shem Shomayim: He must be acting for the sake of Heaven. He has no ulterior motives; he does not hate the sinner; he simply cannot tolerate to see Hashem’s Torah denigrated: He cares for his fellow-Jew who probably does not realize the seriousness of his actions. He speaks from the heart, out of love and caring. His words will thus…
Rashi cites Chazal who explain this pasuk in the following manner: If you keep yourselves separate from the nations and their life styles, you will be Mine; otherwise, you will belong to Nebuchanetzar and his ilk. Rabbi Elazar ben Azarya adds, one should not say, “I do not eat pig because I do not like pig meat.” Rather, one should say, I would like to eat pig meat, but Hashem has prohibited me from eating it and has commanded me to separate from the other nations to be His, and only His” Horav Eliyahu Meir Bloch, zl, remarks that essentially…
Usually when the Torah repeats a word it is providing emphasis. In this case the emphasis placed upon the word “hochei’ach“, reprove, tells us, “you shall surely reprove”. Horav David Feinstein, Shlita, goes a step further. He suggests that while the emphasis is apparently upon the reproach, the focus, however, is not on the one who has sinned, but rather on the mochi’ach, the one who is reproving. There must be constant reproof. This means that prior to reproving someone else, one should first go through a bit of self-censure, chastising himself repeatedly in order to ensure that his…
Rabbi Akiva said that the commandment to “love your fellow as yourself” is the fundamental rule of the Torah. Hashem adjures us to be sensitive to the needs of others. Indeed, Chazal base a variety of laws upon this rule. Unfortunately, Rabbi Akiva, who expounded this rule, who emphasized its critical importance, did not merit to see this rule adopted by his twenty-four thousand students. They all passed away tragically during the seven week period between Pesach and Shavuous. According to Chazal, they died because they did not give the proper kavod, honor, to one another. Rabbi Akiva did not…
Hashem commands us to be holy because He is holy. This is enigmatic. How can we compare ourselves to Hashem? Just because He is holy, does that mean that it is so easy for us to become holy? Imagine a poor man standing in front of a bank begging for alms from the people that come out of the bank. A wealthy man comes along and asks him, “Why don’t you go inside the bank and withdraw a few thousand dollars to tide you over?” The poor man looks back at him incredulously and says, “From what should I make…
The Torah’s exhortation to “Be holy” is more than good advice; it constitutes the cornerstone of Judaism. This mitzvah defines the Jews’ ultimate goal. We strive not simply to attain holiness for ourselves; rather, we strive to be Holy – because Hashem is holy. Hashem is not simply to be worshipped; He is to be emulated! Everything we do, every endeavor in which we are involved, must mirror Hashem’s ways. We must strive to be like Him. The Torah details the prescription for G-d-like living: Follow the mitzvos! Parashas Kedoshim provides a sampling of the Torah’s code. It focuses on…
One might think that the respect one owes his parents overrides the observance of Shabbos. The Torah teaches us that the mitzvah of Shabbos or, in other words, listening to the command of Hashem takes precedence. We may suggest a novel idea. The Torah tells us that to desecrate Shabbos in order to fulfill a parent’s request does not really constitute respect. The definition of respect for one’s parents is the performance of activity that is in accordance with the will of Hashem. An action that runs counter to Hashem’s Torah, albeit upon instruction from one’s parents, is not considered…
The Torah concerns itself with our attitude towards the individuals who are unknowing. Although one who is deaf cannot hear our curse, it does not mitigate its evil. We are the ones that are affected by the curse, since we sink to the level of cursing people. We must realize that people are only vehicles. The evil they perpetrate is meant for us to sustain. We would do well to introspect our own deeds and correct them. Rashi explains that while only a degenerate person would place a stumbling block before the blind, this pasuk also has a metaphorical…
Separation and differentiation are words which are synonymous with Judaism. Indeed, they define the religion. Hashem has set us apart from the nations of the world to be His. From the very beginning His master-plan was that we should be distinct. We are to distinguish ourselves by our observance of the Divine laws, as well as our overall demeanor and virtue. It is evident that the underlying purpose of the Jewish dietary laws is to separate us from the nations. We are elevated from the rest of the world by the food that we eat, the special food that…