ואהבת לרעך כמך
To love one’s fellow as if he were loving oneself is much more than a guideline/criterion for governing interpersonal relationships. It is, in fact, the Torah’s definition of true love. Conditional love, selective love, self-serving love, is not love. It may resemble affection, but it is a far cry from satisfying the Torah’s criteria. It is only when one achieves love that is kamocha mamish, truly as oneself, with the same sensitivity, concern and respect that one accords his own needs, does the term ahavah have true meaning. Anything less, simply misses the target, as it is a pale imitation…
