וכי ימוך אחיך ומטה ידו עמך
Noticeably, when our fellow begins to falter, the Torah refers to him as achicha, your brother – not rei’acha, your fellow/friend. A very simple explanation accounts for this textual change. When a friend falters, suddenly our relationship with him takes an inward (toward ourselves) turn. We are no longer friends; we are philosophers (hypothesizing reasons why we need not help). “It is his fault.” “I warned him, but he refused to listen.” “Truthfully, we are not really that close.” “He runs after me. I never sought him out.” Each excuse is carefully presented – not to present reality, but to…
