והכהן הגדול מאחיו... ועל כל נפשת מת לא יבא לאביו ולאמו לא יטמא
The Chassidic Masters posit that the Kohen Gadol is prohibited from defiling himself ritually (metamei) to relatives – including even his parents, because, as the individual who stands at the spiritual helm of the nation, he should feel equally close to all Jews. The concept of “family” should not apply to him, since all of Klal Yisrael is his family. This is, of course, a very noble concept to which an individual who climbs the ladder of spiritual ascendency should aspire. Veritably, feeling a stronger sense of closeness to one’s family is entirely normal. The Ohaiv Yisrael, Horav David, zl,…
