ובחרת בחיים למען תחיה אתה וזרעך
We often make a mistake, thinking that one’s personal decisions affect him – and only him: “It is my life, and I will live it the way I want to live.” The Torah intimates that such declarations are not only selfish; they are foolish. One does not live only for himself. (One who does is not really living. He is merely existing.) We have responsibilities to our children – present and future. For every choice that we make, we must factor in whether we are prepared or have the right to impose on our children the ramifications of the lifestyle…