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And Avraham came to mourn for Sarah and to weep for her. (23:2)

Chazal teach that the initial three days of shiva (the mourning period), are to be dedicated to be’chi, weeping. These days are followed by the remaining days, designated for hesped, eulogy. First one lets himself go by crying, dramatically demonstrating the feeling of loss he has experienced with the passing of the deceased. This is followed by an intellectual appreciation of the deceased. Therefore, it seems puzzling that Avraham transposed the sequence by first eulogizing and afterwards weeping. Rabbi A.M. Shach, Shlita, explains this change in the following manner. Situations sometimes occur in which the hesped must precede be’chi. Only…

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And I said to my master, perhaps the woman will not follow me. (24:39)

Upon meeting with Rivkah’s family, Eliezer recounted his entire discussion with Avraham. Included in the conversation, Eliezer related his anxiety that the prospective bride might refuse his offer. Rashi cites the reason behind this fear. Eliezer, himself, had a daughter for whom he sought Yitzchak as a husband. Upon approaching Avraham with the idea of this match, he encountered a negative response. Avraham’s rejection was based upon the fact that Eliezer, as a descendant of Canaan, was considered cursed, while Yitzchak was blessed. A union between one who is blessed and one who is cursed cannot endure. The spelling of…

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And I said to my master, perhaps the woman will not follow me. (24:39)

The Midrash cites a pasuk in Hoshea (12:8) “As for the merchant, the balances of deceit are in his hand, he loves to oppress.” applying it to Eliezer. Since he did not reveal his true intentions of seeking to have Yitzchak marry his daughter, he is labeled as deceitful. This seems puzzling. Is someone considered a liar just for covering up the truth? Never did Eliezer utter an untruth, yet he is referred to as deceitful! Rabbi Tzvi H. Volk suggests the following insight into the Midrash. He cites Rabbi Mordechai Yaffe who disagreed citing the popular dictum: “Whatever comes out…

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And she took the veil and covered herself. (24:65)

When Rivkah saw Yitzchak coming towards her, she questioned Eliezer concerning his identity. When Eliezer responded that it was his master, Yitzchak, whom she would soon marry, she immediately covered her face with a veil out of tznius, modesty. Rashi states that the word xf,,u, “and she covered,” should actually be translated “and she was covered” because it is the hispael, reflexive form, of the verb. He compares this to two other words, rce,u, “and she was buried,” and rca,u, “and it was broken.” Rabbi Yerucham Levovitz z.t.l. suggests that Rashi’s choice of examples, i.e. breaking and burial, are deliberate….

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“And the life of Sarah was one hundred years and twenty years and seven years; the years of Sarah’s life.” (21:1)

Horav S. R. Hirsch z.l., notes that this is the only place in Tanach in which the Torah records a woman’s age. There are two peculiarities in the text. After stating “vra hhj uhvhu” – and the life of Sarah – rather than “vra hhj hba” the years of Sarah’s life, the Torah finds it necessary to repeat this information at the end of the pasuk! Indeed, the simple textual interpretation is not that Sarah lived 127 years, but that she lived one hundred years, twenty years, and seven years. Chazal have duly noted that Sarah’s life was divided into…

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“And Hashem blessed Avraham with everything.” (24:1 )

Rashi explains that the word “kfc” alludes to the fact that Avraham was blessed with a son, since the numerical equivalent of “kfc” equals that of “ic”, which means “son.” It seems peculiar that the Torah would be so circumspect, rather than explicitly stating that Avraham was blessed with a son. Horav Nissan Alpert, z.l., offers two insightful answers to this question. Although parents make every attempt to raise children in an appropriate manner, sometimes it is to no avail. Some children grow up and unfortunately do not see “eye to eye” with their parents. The type of wife envisioned…

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“And Avraham said to his slave… and take a wife for my son for Yitzchak.” (24:2-4 )

The Torah devotes a large amount of space to the process of Yitzchak seeking a wife and subsequent marriage. This is indicative of the importance that is attributed to this major event. Indeed, there is no event in the life of a Jewish father which is more important than the marriage of his child. No details are left to chance. Avraham elaborates for Eliezer the specific criteria required for Yitzchak’s wife, who is to carry on the mantle of Jewish motherhood. The Torah details the fact that this first Jewish marriage was arranged through an intermediary or in the classical…

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“That you will not take a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites.” (24:2)

The spiritual and moral abyss between a son of Avraham and a daughter of Canaan is so profound that any relationship between them remains forever illusive. The son of Avraham must never come under the influence of a Canaanite woman. We see Avraham, however, accepting marriage with an Aramean woman of his land and birthplace. In as much as both of these nations were idolators, what is the distinction between them? The Ran explains that the difference is in their basic character. The Arameans were of a moral and pure character, whose affinity to idolatry was a correctable intellectual deviation….

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“And Avraham came to mourn for Sarah and to weep for her.” (23:2)

In this parsha, the Torah portrays Avraham in the role of husband and father. Therefore, the message of this parsha is addressed to the entire Jewish family. We study the death of the first Jewish mother, Sarah, and Avraham’s struggle to locate an appropriate burial place for his beloved wife. Ultimately, he fulfills his wish and brings Sarah to a final resting place. Life continues. The Moreshes Moshe poignantly elaborates this concept. The mourner’s Kaddish is not only a prayer for the dead; it is a prayer for the living as well. tcr vhna ase,hu ksd,h – Even greater and…

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“And Avraham said to his servant.” (24:2)

Perhaps one of the most noteworthy features of this narrative is its remarkable length. The Torah devotes sixty-six pesukim specifically to the chronology of finding a suitable mate for Yitzchak. This fact is in itself fascinating. One of the guidelines by which to understand Torah is the observation of the amount of space which is allotted to a given subject. The Creation of the universe occupies thirty-one pesukim. The Ten Commandments is apportioned fourteen pesukim, whereas the story of Yitzchak and Rivkah is related in sixty-six pesukim. We may derive from this apparent excess of pesukim that the marriage of…

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And Avraham came to mourn for Sarah and to weep for her. (23:2)

And I said to my master, perhaps the woman will not follow me. (24:39)

And I said to my master, perhaps the woman will not follow me. (24:39)

And she took the veil and covered herself. (24:65)

“And the life of Sarah was one hundred years and twenty years and seven years; the years of Sarah’s life.” (21:1)

“And Hashem blessed Avraham with everything.” (24:1 )

“And Avraham said to his slave… and take a wife for my son for Yitzchak.” (24:2-4 )

“That you will not take a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites.” (24:2)

“And Avraham came to mourn for Sarah and to weep for her.” (23:2)

“And Avraham said to his servant.” (24:2)

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